You have to curve people nicely, because nobody can take rejection well…unfortunately.
I fell for dreamers that dreamt of worlds without me. That fall is so sweet until you hit the pavement all alone.
Now I’ve got you in my space , I won’t let go of you… Got you shackled in my embrace , I’m latching on to you…
and in all honesty
when i was dating guys and pushing them to achieve
i was doing more harm than good
i was playing the role of their mother, not their girl friend
it’s not my job to fix men
and me doing it for them only further showed them that if they don’t do work that someone will do it for them
so na, i refuse to do that again
for my sake and theirs
it’s not my job to fix broken men
There are ppl out here withholding affection from their sons thinking that’s gonna make them men
But what it does is make them grown ass men who can’t handle affection because they never had it before